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Compassionate Integrity Training

 

“We believe that a compassionate world is a peaceful world. 

We believe that a compassionate world is possible when every man, woman and child treats others as they wish to be treated–with dignity, equity and respect. 

We believe that all human beings are born with the capacity for compassion, and that it must be cultivated for human beings to survive and thrive.” 

–The Charter for Compassion

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Registration: Now Open!
Duration: 10 weeks with one LIVE two-hour zoom call per week

Dates:
Start Date: September 15th, 2021
End Date: Wednesday November 17, 2021
Time: 2 p.m. – 4 p.m. Eastern Time

Cost: The full price for Compassionate Integrity Training is $250.00. Life University’s guiding principle of “Lasting Purpose: To Give, To Do, To Love, To Serve – Out of a Sense of Abundance” allows us to offer this course based on what you can afford. If $250 exceeds your financial means, then pay what you can based on the options provided.

Testimonials:  Click here to read testimonials about the course

About the Course

Have you ever wondered how you could cultivate the compassion called for in the Charter or help others cultivate that compassion? Compassionate Integrity Training (CIT) is a great place to start!

CIT is a resiliency-informed program that cultivates human values as skills, so we can thrive as individuals, and a society, within a healthy environment.  By learning skills to calm our bodies and mind, becoming more emotionally aware, learning to practice compassion for ourselves and others, as well as engaging with compassion in complex systems, we can build towards compassionate integrity: the ability to live one’s life in accordance with one’s values with a recognition of common humanity, our basic orientation to kindness and reciprocity. It is based on cutting-edge developments in the fields of neuroscience, psychology, trauma-informed care, peace and conflict studies, and contemplative science, and builds off of work done by Daniel Goleman (author of the book Emotional Intelligence) and Peter Senge, initiatives in Social and Emotional Learning (SEL), and other areas.

Facilitated by representatives of Life University’s Center for Compassion, Integrity, and Secular Ethics, Compassionate Integrity Training is an online course hosted through Zoom with additional materials located in Ruzuku (an online learning platform).  The course will include large and small group discussions, experiential learning activities, reflective writing activities, mindful dialogues, and contemplative practices.  This is an opportunity to be part of a global community of like-minded individuals who want to learn more about self-cultivation, relating to others, and engaging in systems.

CIT has been used to train self-compassion, compassion for others, and building compassionate systems to community leaders, peace builders, individuals who are currently incarcerated, and youth considered at-risk, and in shelters for individuals experiencing homelessness and issues with substance abuse. Compassionate San Antonio and Compassionate Atlanta have been at the forefront of implementing CIT and having their leaders become Level 1 Facilitators. CIT is now spreading to Compassionate Cities throughout North America and Europe.

For more information, click here to watch a video describing CIT.

How Does This Course Work?

  • This course will meet weekly, via Zoom, for two hours, in order to engage in “face-to-face” dialogue with colleagues.
  • The information for each weekly session will be located on the Sutra™ Platform for participants to review at their leisure.
  • Participants are encouraged to engage in ongoing dialogue through the discussion board(s) in Sutra™.
  • Participants who complete the entire course will receive a certificate of completion and will be eligible for the Level 1 Facilitator training that will take place in the spring.

Course Outline

CIT utilizes a “three-in-three” educational model that integrates three domains of knowledge and three levels of understanding. The three domains begin with a focus on the self (Self-cultivation), then move to others (Relating to Others), and finally to a systems-perspective, meaning the larger networks in which we exist. Additionally, each module in CIT is intended to allow participants to progress through three levels of understanding: received knowledge, critical insight, and embodied understanding. In CIT, it is important that knowledge not remain at an intellectual level; to be effective, it must lead to realizations and lasting changes in behavior. Knowledge becomes transformative when it moves from head to heart to hand. Therefore, each session has both content and practice learning objectives.

Weekly Topics

Series I – Self Cultivation

Skill 1:  Calming Body and Mind

Content:

  • Participants will learn:
    • about the autonomic nervous system (ANS) and the difference between its fight or flight response and its rest and digest response.
    • about the three zones their body can be in (high, low and resilient) related to the nervous system.

Practice:

  • Participants will learn how to return to the resilient zone when they move outside of it and how to expand their resilient zone through practice.

Skill 2: Ethical Mindfulness

Content:

  • Participants will learn
    • the importance of attentional stability
    • to become heedful of their capacity to do harm to self and others through their speech and actions
    • to be mindful of the reasons why harmful speech and action cause harm to themselves and others

Practice:

  • Participants will increase awareness of the present moment in order to become more cognizant of their speech and actions in order to reduce their propensity to do harm to self and other.

Skill 3: Emotional Awareness

Content:

  • Participants will:
    • investigate whether the nature of thoughts and feelings is permanent or transitory
    • learn to differentiate between what they consider potentially harmful mental states and potentially beneficial mental states for themselves

Practice:

  • Participants will cultivate balance toward their mental states and create more space between thoughts and speech/action

Skill 4: Self-Compassion

Content:

  • Participants will:
    • explore the underlying motivation beneath all of our thoughts and actions
    • explore how suffering and happiness do not depend solely on external situations
    • learn how seeking external sources of happiness, rather than internal ones, often fails to bring lasting satisfaction
    • explore how unrealistic expectations can lead to suffering and excessive self-criticism

Practice:

  • Participants will explore how harmful mental states can be changed and gradually transform their harmful mental states.

Series II – Relating to Others

Skill 5:  Impartiality and Common Humanity

Content:

  • Participants will:
    • explore explicit and implicit bias and methods for weakening them
    • explore what we all have in common as human beings

Practice:

  • Participants will learn to reduce partiality and bias and increase a sense of common humanity.

Skill 6:  Forgiveness and Gratitude

Content:

  • Participants will:
    • learn the benefits of and strategies for cultivating forgiveness
    • learn to distinguish forgiveness from condoning, excusing, forgetting or reconciling
    • learn the benefits of gratitude by exploring interdependence
    • learn that it is possible to be grateful for the harm that someone does not cause them

Practice:

  • Participants will get better at noticing the ways others benefit them and recalling past benefit, cultivate the ability to recognize the benefits others provide for them, develop a greater appreciation for forgiveness, and gain a better ability to see the positive in people, objects, and experiences that were previously taken for granted

Skill 7:  Empathic Concern

Content:

  • Participants will learn:
    • empathy operates on two levels: feeling and thinking
    • the difference between empathic distress and empathic concern
    • the definition, and recognition, of sympathetic joy
    • the benefits of having consideration for others

Practice:

  • Participants will increase their ability to experience emotional resonance with others’ joy and suffering, strengthen perspective-taking, and cultivate affection for others.

Skill 8:  Compassion

Content:

  • Participants will learn:
    • compassion is not weakness
    • the three necessary components of compassion
    • suffering and needs occur on multiple levels, not just obvious ones

Practice:

  • Participants will increase their ability to extend compassion and increase their awareness in the universality of needs and suffering

Series III – Engaging in Systems

Skill 9:  Appreciating Interdependence

Content:

  • Participants will learn:
    • about the radical interdependence of the world
    • the importance of context in systems thinking
    • the way identity is constructed fluidly by chance
    • to recognize structural inequality, structural violence, and cultural violence
    • interdependence requires us to see solutions as sustainable and support collective success
    • to approach problems through the lens of critical inquiry

Practice:

  • Participants will practice evaluating ethical dilemmas through the larger context of interdependence and analyze how objects, situations, and actions come to be

Skill 10:  Engaging with Discernment

Content:

  • Participants will learn:
    • compassion must be complemented with insight and understanding for decisions to lead to the most positive outcomes
    • to use common sense, personal experience, and scientific evidence as a foundation for discernment
    • to check their personal motivation when facing a dilemma
    • how much we gain by listening to others to gain a bigger picture and new ideas

Practice:

  • Participants will practice examining an issue from multiple perspectives, considering the viewpoints, debating the pros and cons, and accessing the creative and imaginative problem-solving capabilities for engaged action within their community

The course includes:

  • Online interaction with facilitators and colleagues for two hours each week throughout the course.
  • A toolbox of skills focusing on self-cultivation, relating to others, and engaging with systems.
  • Access to course content, activities, and writing exercises, as well as access to a variety of contemplative practices.

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Questions about the program?  Please contact Jennifer Valtos at jvaltos@life.edu.

The Center for Compassion, Integrity and Secular Ethics is pleased to offer this course in partnership with the Charter for Compassion.

Course Facilitators:
Course Facilitators:

Mohamed Dewji moved to Canada in 1976 from Kenya and graduated from UBC with a B.Sc. in Pharmaceutical Sciences in 1991. He has facilitated various programs over the past 7 years including NeuroPhychology for Learning, Aspire Case Management Training, and Leadership Development. Most recently, Mohamed has been facilitating Compassionate Integrity Training and has made practicing and promoting compassion a goal in life. He is also an avid traveller and enjoys reading – especially Sufi poetry.

Danielle Holtman is a former Life University staff member who was a part of one of the first CIT cohorts at Life University. Upon completion of the course she immediately knew she wanted to spread this knowledge to others and become a Level I CIT Facilitator. Danielle holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a master’s degree in professional counseling and is passionate about helping others balance life’s demands and views health & wellness as multidimensional. She owns and operates Piece by Peace Living, LLC which offers various wellbeing services including individual and corporate wellness program consulting, Whole30 Coaching, and CIT training.

Currently located on the coast of northern Florida, United States, Danielle is the mother of triplet daughters, and enjoys outdoor activities like hiking, boating, and bike riding with her family.

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September 15, 2021 - November 17, 2021
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