Who Is My Neighbor?

Who is my neighbor? We teach the Sunday School to sing Jan Wesson’s hymn:

They asked, “Who’s my neighbor and whom should I love;
for whom should I do a good deed?”
Then Jesus related a story and said,
“It’s anyone who has a need, yes, anyone who has a need.”

But children watch what we do, not just what we say. Would children be able to tell from your actions whom you think your neighbor is?